1. Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady... So instead of sitting there and waiting to be
bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife category...
2. Never let the sweet talks of guys deceive you, most
times they just want to go between your legs and run off thereafter.
3. Remove the mentality from your mind that guys
will keep springing up to approach you. The older
you get by the day, the less toasters you will have.
4. Playing 'too' hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, Nothing lasts forever. If
you still doubt, check out the number of matured
single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE.
5. Never extort things from a guy you don't love,
guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either
through their FRIENDS or total 'PAID' STRANGERS....BE CAREFUL.
6. Never be deceived you can trap a guy through sex. A man will also return to his wife who sex starves him for years once he loves and trust her. You
can never win a man over with your body.
7. If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to
EXTRACT MONEY from him, don't complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer...
8. Don't be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing
to an 80 year old woman they want to get intimate with.
9. A guy always taking you to the SILVER-BIRD, FAST
FOOD (pizza in or galitos), MALL AND EVENTS AT
CONFERENCE CENTER /NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign
that he loves you, if he doesn't care to ask and PLAN
YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his 'SOCIAL
MATE' and nothing else....
10. If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry,
then just know you are his "executive house help".
11. If he avoids meeting your family and close friends
then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games
with you.
12. Don't always change the tv station from NTV to
CHANNEL O, MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find
out what is bothering him and how you can help out.
13. If the only places he doesn't frown when you
enter are his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren't welcome (only being used). Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up
being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end...Always with open arms, requesting
for something and ready to receive... The more you widen your arms, the more he widens
your legs... A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings female visitors to
the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO
HIS PARENTS ALREADY... ADVISE YOURSELF...
FINALLY, I ALWAYS SAY THIS AND WILL REPEAT IT AGAIN... It's better to be sitting in a taxi smiling happily than to be in your husband's fresh air conditioned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a
fresh Gucci shades along side a Burberry scarf.... JUST REMEMBER, THAT DATING A RICH MAN DOESN'T
GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE... MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING.....MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS
WHAT MATTERS MOST...
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Sunday 20 October 2013
Wednesday 9 October 2013
Random Thoughts
Read before you Sleep!
1:You're not going to get over anyone by trying
to make them jealous.
2:Moving on and letting go isn't easy, but
sometimes you need to start over and be new
again.
3:Don't give up on things when you think you
can fight for it. It's difficult to wait but it's
more difficult to regret.
4:Stop saying ‘I can’t’. You can. You just choose
not to.
5:A real relationship. Has fights. Has trust. Has
faith. Has tears. Has hurt. Has laughter. Has
weird, stupid & unnecessary arguments.
6;Overthinking kills your happiness, insecurities
kills your self esteem, and lies kills your trust.
7;I'm the type of girl that puts on her better
smile, her better outfit, and better attitude and
shows him what he left behind.
8:You're sad? I'll cheer you up.
You're upset? I'd love to listen.
All you have to do is come to me, you know I'll
be there for you.
9: Be amazing. Be good. Be pretty. Be strong.
Be smart. Be cool. But the most important thing
is, be yourself.
10:.Don't beg for anyone to stay in your life. If
they want to be a part of your life, they will
stay.
Good night ;)
1:You're not going to get over anyone by trying
to make them jealous.
2:Moving on and letting go isn't easy, but
sometimes you need to start over and be new
again.
3:Don't give up on things when you think you
can fight for it. It's difficult to wait but it's
more difficult to regret.
4:Stop saying ‘I can’t’. You can. You just choose
not to.
5:A real relationship. Has fights. Has trust. Has
faith. Has tears. Has hurt. Has laughter. Has
weird, stupid & unnecessary arguments.
6;Overthinking kills your happiness, insecurities
kills your self esteem, and lies kills your trust.
7;I'm the type of girl that puts on her better
smile, her better outfit, and better attitude and
shows him what he left behind.
8:You're sad? I'll cheer you up.
You're upset? I'd love to listen.
All you have to do is come to me, you know I'll
be there for you.
9: Be amazing. Be good. Be pretty. Be strong.
Be smart. Be cool. But the most important thing
is, be yourself.
10:.Don't beg for anyone to stay in your life. If
they want to be a part of your life, they will
stay.
Good night ;)
Monday 7 October 2013
Why I'm Single?
So many peoples asked me and wondering why...
Why a woman like me is single?
Is single strange? Is single weird? Or embarassing?
Single is a choice :) ( what a nice excuse.. Lol)
They says im beautiful, sexy, cute, nice and bla bla bla...
Im a singer who will have so many attentions for so many guys..
But why am i single?
Something wrong with me?
With my personality? Not at all!!!
I can describe my self as a good person.. But not perfect of course..
I am just normal person with normal look, not that beautiful like a queen or miss world.
I want a natural beautiful when it come from inside. Only the people who is really special and have the same values who could see this from me :)
Im an independent and strong woman. Who makes my own money and pay my own bills, sometimes i shared what i earns with peoples whose need helps
Im quite intelligent, sweet and caring person, always try to be honest, share the love and kindness with people around, give the best for a special one, be faithful til the high level, when i love someone i will love him the way he is..
But I'm also grumpy when I'm hungry and when i get my period once in a month.
I will get jealous with a logic reasons
I will get mad when something or someone is mine is stolen from my hand
I will be really pissed off when something unfair happening
I will cry when i feel sad or when i get really angry and think that something i cant take it anymore
I will be disappointed when someone broke the promises they made
I will throw candies to peoples who stabbed the knifes on my back ( but i will put poisons inside the candies lol)
I am only human.. Who have good and bad sides.. Like you guys..
I am not an angel.. So forget about that i will charm you with a beautiful wings.. I probably an angel but without wings :)
I am not a princess.. So forget about the beautifulness, being spoiled, asks helps, be manner all the time, i cant even walk like a princess.. I probably a princess.. But a rock and roll princess :)
I am not a house maid! So forget about i will take care of your laundry, your house, cooking you dishes everyday, clean your room, ironing your clothes and all about maids stuff. I probably can do it.. But it will cost you an expensive romantic dinner and sweet gifts :) and you must be a sweet boy who will hug me from behind while i wash a dish :)
The questions are.. Why i still single!???
Because i choose to be single :) and i still pick up some pieces of my broken heart that spreaded averywhere.. Im picking it up piece by piece and try string it up become a whole heart. It would be not a same shape like before.. But the time heal it..
Ironic! Or.. Naive.. Or klise.. Or whatever!
The things is im still waiting for the right one who will make our dream come true to make it real :)
Im still waiting for a guy who can see the values in me..
Not beacuse of my cover.. But about the story to read inside me
Someone who will never make me happy with the lies
Someone.. Someone.. Someone...
Somewhere.. Someday..
Why a woman like me is single?
Is single strange? Is single weird? Or embarassing?
Single is a choice :) ( what a nice excuse.. Lol)
They says im beautiful, sexy, cute, nice and bla bla bla...
Im a singer who will have so many attentions for so many guys..
But why am i single?
Something wrong with me?
With my personality? Not at all!!!
I can describe my self as a good person.. But not perfect of course..
I am just normal person with normal look, not that beautiful like a queen or miss world.
I want a natural beautiful when it come from inside. Only the people who is really special and have the same values who could see this from me :)
Im an independent and strong woman. Who makes my own money and pay my own bills, sometimes i shared what i earns with peoples whose need helps
Im quite intelligent, sweet and caring person, always try to be honest, share the love and kindness with people around, give the best for a special one, be faithful til the high level, when i love someone i will love him the way he is..
But I'm also grumpy when I'm hungry and when i get my period once in a month.
I will get jealous with a logic reasons
I will get mad when something or someone is mine is stolen from my hand
I will be really pissed off when something unfair happening
I will cry when i feel sad or when i get really angry and think that something i cant take it anymore
I will be disappointed when someone broke the promises they made
I will throw candies to peoples who stabbed the knifes on my back ( but i will put poisons inside the candies lol)
I am only human.. Who have good and bad sides.. Like you guys..
I am not an angel.. So forget about that i will charm you with a beautiful wings.. I probably an angel but without wings :)
I am not a princess.. So forget about the beautifulness, being spoiled, asks helps, be manner all the time, i cant even walk like a princess.. I probably a princess.. But a rock and roll princess :)
I am not a house maid! So forget about i will take care of your laundry, your house, cooking you dishes everyday, clean your room, ironing your clothes and all about maids stuff. I probably can do it.. But it will cost you an expensive romantic dinner and sweet gifts :) and you must be a sweet boy who will hug me from behind while i wash a dish :)
The questions are.. Why i still single!???
Because i choose to be single :) and i still pick up some pieces of my broken heart that spreaded averywhere.. Im picking it up piece by piece and try string it up become a whole heart. It would be not a same shape like before.. But the time heal it..
Ironic! Or.. Naive.. Or klise.. Or whatever!
The things is im still waiting for the right one who will make our dream come true to make it real :)
Im still waiting for a guy who can see the values in me..
Not beacuse of my cover.. But about the story to read inside me
Someone who will never make me happy with the lies
Someone.. Someone.. Someone...
Somewhere.. Someday..
Sunday 6 October 2013
Made Man
let's talk about something very important..
As a woman, stupidity is when you sit back
cross-leg and search for an already made man.
In case you don't know, every already made
man out there, has a woman who has been
with him from when he had only a pair of
shorts and a single shirt.
That's why majority of well to do men, usually
make you nothing but a sex- toy, for you
mean absolutely nothing to them.
He might cheat on her with you, but truth is,
he will never leave her for you! If you are
guilty of hunting for an already made man,
then I tell you, my dear you are such a cow,
you actually need horns.
When good healthy brains settles, yours floats!
That man who is head over heels in love with
you right now and you ar taking for granted
this minute...
He may not own a car.
He may not earn a lot of money.
He may not live in a posh estate.
He may not be able to shower you with gifts
all the time.
He may not have a great job.
But it's enough to know you are the only one
he craves for and loves unconditionally...If he
has a heart of gold.
He is Honest.
He is very hard working.He is humble.
He keeps that smile on your face.
He talks to you everyday.
He actually listens to you.Again,
He tolerates you when you're moody.
His family knows you.
He tells you, your beautiful all the time.
He sees you every chance he gets.
He appreciates the tiniest things you do.
He is there, when you need him.
He respects you.
He is proud you are his and likes showing you
off.
And he treats you like a queen,
my dear you are indeed lucky to have him.
He may not have it all now,
but one day he will...
He may not be living his dream now,
but one day he will..
And as he pictures all this, he pictures you.
Ladies, there's no perfect man on earth, never
you forget this fact. Learn to appreciate that
man in your life who strives to be all you
need.
That man who promises you nothing but tries
his utmost best to give you everything.
Ladies, appreciate he that is in you,and to you
men, don't be goats or act like dogs,
appreciate and be all the above to your
women.
Let genuine love lead..........................
Via
Candy
As a woman, stupidity is when you sit back
cross-leg and search for an already made man.
In case you don't know, every already made
man out there, has a woman who has been
with him from when he had only a pair of
shorts and a single shirt.
That's why majority of well to do men, usually
make you nothing but a sex- toy, for you
mean absolutely nothing to them.
He might cheat on her with you, but truth is,
he will never leave her for you! If you are
guilty of hunting for an already made man,
then I tell you, my dear you are such a cow,
you actually need horns.
When good healthy brains settles, yours floats!
That man who is head over heels in love with
you right now and you ar taking for granted
this minute...
He may not own a car.
He may not earn a lot of money.
He may not live in a posh estate.
He may not be able to shower you with gifts
all the time.
He may not have a great job.
But it's enough to know you are the only one
he craves for and loves unconditionally...If he
has a heart of gold.
He is Honest.
He is very hard working.He is humble.
He keeps that smile on your face.
He talks to you everyday.
He actually listens to you.Again,
He tolerates you when you're moody.
His family knows you.
He tells you, your beautiful all the time.
He sees you every chance he gets.
He appreciates the tiniest things you do.
He is there, when you need him.
He respects you.
He is proud you are his and likes showing you
off.
And he treats you like a queen,
my dear you are indeed lucky to have him.
He may not have it all now,
but one day he will...
He may not be living his dream now,
but one day he will..
And as he pictures all this, he pictures you.
Ladies, there's no perfect man on earth, never
you forget this fact. Learn to appreciate that
man in your life who strives to be all you
need.
That man who promises you nothing but tries
his utmost best to give you everything.
Ladies, appreciate he that is in you,and to you
men, don't be goats or act like dogs,
appreciate and be all the above to your
women.
Let genuine love lead..........................
Via
Candy
First Sunday
Good morning World.. GOod morning universe..
Still lying on my comfort bed in Shangri-la hotel Surabaya.
Have a cup of Dilmah,English breakfast tea.
Today, Sunday.. My first day off after 5 days performed, since I arrived on October 1st.
Last night our first Saturday night, great crowd!everybody dance and sweating.
Well, so far everyday always have good crowd but last night Much better than any other day
I have a nice room, share with my partner..the other female singer, and she is my friend.
And we gonna stay here for two months
I checked my phone when I just awake!
And got those messages that a bit annoying to start my morning and my Sunday!
How to react?
The best way to react is No reaction at all!! Keep silent and Ignored!!
No reply back..
As I promised to my self.. I'm done with all of those bullshit!
I'm tired of waiting.. Or expected too much..
I'm tired of being fool
And I feel stupid of being stupid!
I enjoying my life right now.
Enjoying what I do
And grateful of what I have.
Makes a friend and laugh
Dance like nobody watching
Jump high.. Higher!
Scream!! Loud.. And louder
if you think you could make me down! You fucking wrong!
You even make me strong!
Stronger!
Enjoy your fucked up, creepy, boring, fake, full of lies life!
And good luck with that!
Life is a choice
And I chose..
Enjoy my Sunday :) :) :)
Tuesday 1 October 2013
Welcome my 30
Thank You My Lord.. Thank You God.. Thanks Allah..
Alhamdulillah...
That i still breathing.. Still alive.. And survive..
For all the things i had.. For all the things i have.. For all the things i lost and gone.. All the things that i haven't come yet.
For my Health.. My Joy.. Painful.. Hurts.. Happiness.. Bless.. Laughter.. Broken heart..Love.. Tears.. Gifts.. Surprised..
Thanks for trusting me this 29 years.. Thanks for my 29 years i had.
Thanks for giving me 30.. Thanks for my 30 years I will have .
I just hope that i will have another years.. 40.. 50..60..70..90..maybe 100 years
Your blessing is countless..
Even for the pain and hard life i still have to be grateful
Cuz of those things i learnt! You teach me to be a strong person, become stronger. and be a better person.
Thanks for a great family.. Thanks for supported friends.. Thanks for the special guys i had.. Thanks for a special one i don't have right now! And thanks for all who still care about me.. Thanks for you who hates me.. Thanks for you who still love me.
On my 30..
Im not scare to live my life.. My present or My future..
I always ready..
Chances and challenges
Troubles and problems
Goals and Glorious
Hope and dreams..
The dreams is not over...
Happy Birthday..
For me!!!
Dreams, believe and make it happens!
Alhamdulillah...
That i still breathing.. Still alive.. And survive..
For all the things i had.. For all the things i have.. For all the things i lost and gone.. All the things that i haven't come yet.
For my Health.. My Joy.. Painful.. Hurts.. Happiness.. Bless.. Laughter.. Broken heart..Love.. Tears.. Gifts.. Surprised..
Thanks for trusting me this 29 years.. Thanks for my 29 years i had.
Thanks for giving me 30.. Thanks for my 30 years I will have .
I just hope that i will have another years.. 40.. 50..60..70..90..maybe 100 years
Your blessing is countless..
Even for the pain and hard life i still have to be grateful
Cuz of those things i learnt! You teach me to be a strong person, become stronger. and be a better person.
Thanks for a great family.. Thanks for supported friends.. Thanks for the special guys i had.. Thanks for a special one i don't have right now! And thanks for all who still care about me.. Thanks for you who hates me.. Thanks for you who still love me.
On my 30..
Im not scare to live my life.. My present or My future..
I always ready..
Chances and challenges
Troubles and problems
Goals and Glorious
Hope and dreams..
The dreams is not over...
Happy Birthday..
For me!!!
Dreams, believe and make it happens!
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